Thankful

They're asking them selves, how could someone be lovable, strong, sweet, smart, cute and happy at the same time? Most people think life is unfair, therefor, they hardly imagine a successful marriage, a bride future, helpful hands, a happy mother, a caring wealthy person, a lovable neighbor or a true love that last forever. They used to see negative kind of images all the time. Of course, I blame the media for showing only this kind of life images to the public, very rarely we see the good opposite. However, I have the solution for all, I have the key to that bride door, which is the ''thankful'' door. Being thankful opens many paths for you, it's only a word that comes from the heart and shines with a smile. Saying it is not what I mean, I mean by actions. For example, if someone did a favor to you, you should be very thankful about it and start to treat that person better. Or, you're a wife, you have children, but you miss the old single days, and start to regrade about getting married, what about your beautiful family that many wish to have, what about the moments you share with your children and your caring husband who work hard for you and for your children, you should look at this side and be thankful about it. You see, when you start to be thankful about your life and think about those who have enough problems, you'd feel lucky. Don't be selfish, you're not alone, this world can get onto your head, but you don't want that, be thankful for what you have got and continue dreaming. Also, thank people all the time, in the market, the malls, the streets, especially your mother who took care of you, and everyone. I don't know how could someone treat his mother badly, you will never find someone who loves you more than your mother, she raised you, feed you and loved you and you're not feeling thankful about it? When you start to be thankful, you'd automatically become a better person. Why you always think the rich man is a selfish proud person, the beautiful woman loves only rich people, the wife or husband could stop loving you in the future, or Michael Jackson is not innocence from the rumors. Free your mind from these negative images and images and start to see the world in a better way. There are many good people around the world, you just be one of them. Moreover, thank God for giving you everything you've been dreaming for. God created this world for you to lead, you're the one who's going to get whatever you want during your life time, it has been your choice all the time. But, when you start to get or become what you wanted, be thankful about it and you will be greeted with even more and more. Be careful, many people become proud of them selves, as they're the one who made it happen with no one's help, they're not thankful, and they're not lovable, poor them. Anyone can have what he or she wants. So, you can be lovable stronger and sweeter and smarter and cuter and happier at the same time, by being thankful.

Have a break have a confidence

If someone has confidence, what more can he or she ask. As mentioned before, you're living your own world, you know your world better than anyone else, don't be afraid from anyone, because no one knows your world better than you do, let them be philosophers about you, they still don't know. Be confident about your self, follow your goal. One of the main problem in humanity that there is no understanding, if someone said that he saw a demon, no one would believe him, yeah maybe he was imagining or something, but why we block our minds from anything that not familiar to us, let's have the freedom of imagination, this world is full fantasies, believe it or not. However, no matter how your goal looks like, if you believe it's possible to achieve, then do it, be confident. Many people think money is the key of everything, that's exactly what making them blind. Money is a tool, but it's not a goal. In the other hand, it doesn't mean that you're always right, we all could be wrong. Of course, our goals remain the same but the way we think about it could be wrong. For instant, some girl wants to be a famous singer, but she doesn't know the singer responsibilities, she just have a good voice and she think she deserve to be a celebrity. That's called misunderstood the goal, many people when they reach their goals they get disappointed and claim that life is not fair. Do you see now how media can ruin your life so simply? Study your goal, look at your goals from many different corners, have a confidence and then create your idea. Don't create your ideas before you found your confidence, you can't earn confidence if you haven't looked at your goal from different corners and you would be a pointless person if you don't study your matter or goal. When I tell my friends about my book, they find it hard to believe, or no one would read it, but I have a confidence that my book is going to be huge, because I've studied my goal, I saw the world from many and many different corners, I earned the confidence and then I created my idea, which is this book. Having a confidence feels great, you can swear that there is something boiling inside you when you become confident about your self, confidence is an energy, a sweet energy.